Tips on How To Be More Social In Real Life

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Trying to succeed as a businesswoman or an influencer or anything as such takes mighty hard work. There so many different things that come into play. It’s even harder when you just happened to be an introvert who is not well practiced at being social or talking to people on a regular basis.

As an entrepreneur or just any person, you may find yourself in positions where you need to be able to socialize with those around you. I have been there as well. As a matter of fact, before beginning a business online I was probably one of the most antisocial people that you can ever come across.

However, there are a lot of introverted people who learned how to be social for the purpose of their business. Some people learn how to be social just for the sake of being social. When you are an introverted person it is not an easy thing to do but it’s definitely possible. It takes a certain amount of courage to want to get out of your comfort zone and become more of a social person.

I want you to also keep in mind that being an introvert is not some kind of personality defect.

There are famous people all over the world who are introverts. It doesn’t mean anything is
wrong with you. People like Rosa Parks, Bill Gates, and even Albert Einstein were textbook
introverts and went on to make a huge difference in the world. Being an introvert only means that you are slightly shy or you prefer to be alone as opposed to being around a crowd of people and having the attention on you.

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So, don’t think that being an introvert means that you are somehow less likely to be successful anybody else. All that means is that there are certain skills that you will want to grasp and get slightly out of your comfort zone.

Being social doesn’t have to be stressful as we make it out to be. You don’t have to put
yourself in a series of panic attacks in order to become more of a social person. It won’t happen overnight but becoming more social can be accomplished if you take the right steps. What are those steps? I thought you’d never ask.

Tips on How To Be More Social In Real Life

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1. Take Baby Steps

I know that when you realize you want to be a more sociable person there is a part of you that just want to go out there and do it. Motivation can cause you to just run full throttle into something. However, when people who are not used to being social throw themselves into an overly social situation too fast they tend to have things like:

  • anxiety attacks
  • panic attacks
  • and the entire night ends up being a disaster.

So simply don’t rush into it. You’ll end up drained and never want to do it again. Start by doing something small or simple.

Say hello to a stranger and start a conversation with them at a coffee house. Wave at someone that you don’t know.

You do not have to immediately go to a rave and dance with a bunch of people that you don’t know in order to start this process. Start by dipping your toe in the water before you just dive headfirst.

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2. Go out more often

Again, I am not telling you to go clubbing. I am not telling you to go to the biggest party that you can find. One of the best ways to start becoming more social is to just put yourself in slightly more social situations.

Go out to a restaurant with just you and a couple of friends. Go to a museum by yourself and don’t avoid eye contact with other people.

At some point, people may speak to you and that will be the perfect time for you to practice.

It may be awkward or uncomfortable at first, but the more you put yourself around people, the more comfortable with being around people you become.

3. Work on yourself

Personally, I think that self-development is the answer to everything. You become more successful in every area of your life and that includes being more social.

The more you work on yourself the more confident you become and then the more you find that you were able to be social without freaking out.

4. Practice makes perfect

Like I said there’s no reason to rush anything. The more you put yourself in the face of other people the easier it’ll become.

One thing that helped me when I was extremely introverted and unable to speak to strangers with practicing talking in the mirror.

Yes, if somebody were to catch you doing that he would probably look a little bit crazy, but in the long run, you will find that you don’t have such a hard time finding words because you practice beforehand.

5. Have set alone time to recharge

Introverts are the type of people that need alone time. I know that you want to be more social and I applaud you for that because making connections with people can be extremely useful.

However, in order for this not to drain you or overwhelm you; you have to make sure that you are taking time to be by yourself.

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Schedule time, an entire day if you need to, to just be with yourself without the pressures
of having to converse with other people. Being alone has become extremely important to
me and I value my alone time because it recharges me so the next time I am around
people doesn’t feel like such work.

Concluding thoughts,

Being social especially as an introverted person is quite the task to take on. It took me quite some time and quite a bit of practice before I was able to truly become a natural social butterfly.

However, learning to conquer your lack of social skills is important. There is zero correlation between being the best talker and having amazing ideas. There is a lot of correlation between having great ideas and being able to express them to others.

What tips do you have for being social? If you are an introvert who isn’t used to being in social situations, what is making you want to change that?

Is there anything that I listed that you think will be helpful for you? Leave your comments down below!

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